The word Friendship – what does it mean to you? I am pretty sure we all have a different definition for it.

Now think of the word REAL FRIENDS.

Growing up as a social person, I have had friends that left my path and friends who have been part of my journey for over 20 years which I truly cherish. Friends are blessing to me and I consider them as a family. I would go out of my way to do everything and anything that is possible to be there for my friends.

Definition of real friendship to me, is friends who understand you as a person and truly respect you. They are also the people that you can rely on regardless of the circumstances. You cannot call someone your friend if you once met at them at a party, or someone you go gym with. I’m sure they are not the people you could turn to in time of need.

I personally have started being selective who I hang out with and have lost long term friendships, as I believe that my life is a reflection of the energy I put and allow around me. You become who you hang out with, make sure you have something in common with the friends that surround you. Hang out with loving, kind, compassionate, passionate and giving people. ‘Keep your circle small’ – Took me 28 years to recognise the depth of the wise man quote.

Every person teaches you a valuable lesson in life. It is important to have meaning friendships over superficial ones. Real friends will always be supportive, respect your privacy, celebrate your success and not be jealous of you. Surround yourself with the right people. Do not let your friends to treat you like sh**, just because you do not wish to lose them. Remember anybody you lose was not supposed to be around, this could be years-long friendship.

TIP- Simplify your circle of friends- Keep those who add value to your life and remove those who don’t.