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Embracing the World: A Journey of Learning, Culture, and Adventure

Traveling, a pursuit that has opened my eyes to the wonders of the world, has been a transformative experience for me. As I’ve explored different corners of the globe, from the picturesque landscapes of Europe to the vibrant cultures of India, I have discovered valuable life lessons and embraced the beauty of diversity. Through my journeys, I’ve learned to respect cultures and religions, become more independent, and appreciate the fascinating wildlife that this planet has to offer. In this blog, I’ll share my travel experiences, the joy of making friends on the road, savoring diverse cuisines, and my insatiable desire to explore the enchanting continent of Africa.

Learning and Cultural Respect

Traveling offers a unique opportunity to learn and grow, fostering a deep understanding of various cultures and traditions. My encounters with different communities and their customs have taught me to appreciate diversity and celebrate the richness it brings to our lives. Whether witnessing the elaborate festivals in India or exploring the historical landmarks of Europe, each experience has contributed to my personal growth. By embracing the differences and commonalities between cultures, I’ve become more open-minded and accepting, fostering a spirit of unity and respect.

Gaining Independence

One of the most empowering aspects of traveling is the opportunity to step outside of your comfort zone and embrace independence. Navigating through unfamiliar territories and finding my way in new cities has given me a sense of self-reliance and adaptability. From figuring out public transportation systems to overcoming language barriers, these challenges have only strengthened my confidence and resourcefulness. Traveling has taught me that I am capable of handling diverse situations with grace and composure.

Connecting Through Food and People

Food is a gateway to a culture’s soul, and sampling various cuisines during my travels has been an exciting adventure in itself. From savoring spicy curries in India to indulging in delectable pastries in Europe, each dish tells a story of its own. Beyond the culinary delights, the most cherished memories are the friendships made along the way. Engaging with locals and fellow travelers has enriched my experiences, offering unique perspectives and creating lifelong bonds that span across continents.

Embracing Flexibility in Travel

Traveling has taught me to be flexible and adaptable in every aspect of my journey. Whether it’s choosing the mode of transportation, adjusting to unforeseen changes in plans, or immersing myself in the local customs, flexibility has been key to making the most of my adventures. Embracing spontaneity and going with the flow has led me to unexpected discoveries and memorable encounters that wouldn’t have been possible otherwise.

Traveling has been more than just exploring new places for me; it’s been a profound journey of self-discovery, cultural appreciation, and a celebration of our world’s diversity. Through my experiences in the United States, Europe, India, and beyond, I’ve learned to respect and understand different cultures and religions. The love for wildlife has inspired my desire to explore Africa’s enchanting landscapes, while my passion for food and people has allowed me to make connections that transcend borders. As I continue to wander, I eagerly embrace the unknown, seeking the magic that lies within each new destination. So, let us embark on this journey together and uncover the treasures that travel has in store for all of us.

Empathy

“Let’s stop waiting for a better world, Let’s start working on it together”

(The Oxford Dictionary) Define Empathy- The ability to understand and share the feeling of another.

I would describe Empathy as ‘Seeing with the eyes of another, listening with the ears of another and feeling with the heart of another. It is more of giving/feeling sympathetic for someone. Being empathetic is trying to imagine the scene from the other person’s point of view.   

Also, to empathize with another person is putting yourself in the person’s shoes to feel his/her emotions or feeling that they are experiencing. People tend to feel less lonely when they know you understand their perspective. There is 3 type of empathy; emotional, cognitive, and compassionate. You can experience all the 3 types at one time.

The key to becoming a better human in this world is to become an empathetic person. I know it is easier said than done. But you could start small, for instance, become a better listener.

There is 4 type of skills, I have learned and practicing to be more empathetic.    

  • Empathetic Awareness skill 
  • Empathetic Listening skill 
  • Empathetic Speaking skill 
  • Empathetic Dialogue 

Take a more in-depth look, by reading the book I came across, Essential Keys to Effective Communication in Love, Life, Work–Anywhere!: – Bento C. Leal III.

I wish to be more empathetic as I am concerned for the well-being and happiness of others. However, it comes with pros and cons. Being Hyper Empathy can burn you out, can also get you overwhelmed, or even stimulate you from always thinking about other people’s emotions.

TIP Empathetic awareness will teach you to empathize with your own self (Self-reflection). 

Real Friendship

The word Friendship – what does it mean to you? I am pretty sure we all have a different definition for it.

Now think of the word REAL FRIENDS.

Growing up as a social person, I have had friends that left my path and friends who have been part of my journey for over 20 years which I truly cherish. Friends are blessing to me and I consider them as a family. I would go out of my way to do everything and anything that is possible to be there for my friends.

Definition of real friendship to me, is friends who understand you as a person and truly respect you. They are also the people that you can rely on regardless of the circumstances. You cannot call someone your friend if you once met at them at a party, or someone you go gym with. I’m sure they are not the people you could turn to in time of need.

I personally have started being selective who I hang out with and have lost long term friendships, as I believe that my life is a reflection of the energy I put and allow around me. You become who you hang out with, make sure you have something in common with the friends that surround you. Hang out with loving, kind, compassionate, passionate and giving people. ‘Keep your circle small’ – Took me 28 years to recognise the depth of the wise man quote.

Every person teaches you a valuable lesson in life. It is important to have meaning friendships over superficial ones. Real friends will always be supportive, respect your privacy, celebrate your success and not be jealous of you. Surround yourself with the right people. Do not let your friends to treat you like sh**, just because you do not wish to lose them. Remember anybody you lose was not supposed to be around, this could be years-long friendship.

TIP- Simplify your circle of friends- Keep those who add value to your life and remove those who don’t.

‘Share your smile with the world, it’s a symbol of friendship and peace ‘ – Christie Brinkley

People… Let go 🎈

We attract people into our lives for a reason, just as they attract us into their.

People that come in to my life

People that chose to leave my life

People thought me good things

People that thought me not so good things

People that took advantage of my friendship

People that I took advantage off unintentionally

People that helped climb up

People that pushed me down

People that supported and loved me with no expectations/selfless

People that dislik me

People that hurt me

People that I gave pain to

People that took me a great time to get over because of the attachment

People that helped me to get over my pain

People that made me feel worthless

People that made me feel special

People that cheated me

After all this people who crossed my path I am still breathing, healthy and looking forward for my next day. I am very grateful that I chose the spiritual life as it helped me to get through the suffering caused which I thought would be difficult to deal with. I also thought I wouldn’t survive with the people who left my journey. Today I do not even hold a grudge against people, as I have healed by forgiving myself and everyone else that did wrong to me. Truth is I can’t even think of those people, as my worry before . I let go of the people that drain me and keep people that bring peace ☮️

Let go of the people, Let go of the attachments and hand your life to the creator. Trust him to make your life beautiful by not controlling it but by living it with purpose.

The people you surround yourself with are excellent mirrors for who you are

Your Life Purpose

“Your purpose in life is to find your purpose and give your whole heart and soul to it.” — Buddha

Shedding some light on Life
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Life with purpose…Maybe you have or have not figured out your purpose of life, and that’s okay. From families, friends to society play a big part in our lives with or without a choice. Everyone at some point or some on regular basis are battling in their life journey. Instead of taking care of ourselves we feel the need to answer to people who do so little for you control so much of your mind and afraid to lose them.

We as human being are not perfect, sometimes we are happy and sometimes we are sad, we feel messy, we feel great, we can be sensitive, we can do wrong and right the list goes on and you know what? That’s okay – ‘Breathe’.

Romans 3:10 – As it is written: “None is righteous, no, not one.

On our journey through life, it is only you who are aware of your emotions, struggles, pain that you have to put up with and during this time we might be trying to fix someone else’s vibes, we might even be hurting people unintentionally.

We as individuals handle our life differently from others; some might do it fairly, some might be miserable in handling their life, some might even stay strong and handle their life like a BOSS. We all are different, and this could be because of our maturity, environment, upbringing, etc.

Before you read further, I want you to first forgive yourself for being hard on yourself. You cannot change your pasts wrongdoing also there is no guarantee we won’t make any more mistakes in future. It is very important to acknowledge your emotions and have self-talk every now and then. No matter what our purpose of life is we should have one purpose and that is to become a better person. Be kind to yourself and others. Family, friends, partner that love you will always be there and support you regardless. They will respect your space; they will understand you and be there for you with no expectations.

It is so important to speak and express your emotions but at your own comfort and that is whenever you wish to do it. Respect people around you, listen to what they have to say only if you are Not willing to pass on the information to someone else (gossiping). To stay positive, we must change our attitude, practice gratitude, love selfless also respect people’s privacy.

Assumptions mostly lead to negativity this is where our ego gets involved, let the ego go before it brings the worst out of you. We should be around people that are trying/are positive, happy and kind in short trying to better themselves. It is equally important to give respect and have self-respect. You do not owe any answers to people neither people owe you an answer. The day we realise our life purpose we will notice that 24hrs is not enough.

‘In a blink of an eye, everything can change and if you are going to live, leave a legacy.’

Before you comment on someone or give your opinion please be mindful, learn to differentiate between being straight forward and being insensitive. People are suffering physically, mentally and emotionally it could be them today and it could be you the next day. We all wish to be treated kindly, simple things like listening, understanding and willing to help can be part of your life purpose. ‘the great act of kindness.’

Thank you for reading
– Spain

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